By Guest Columnist Josh Rutherford
On East
County Road 400 North, just before you get to Lake Santee, sits a small,
forgotten cemetery known as Memorial Cemetery. Located in this cemetery are
around twenty graves from the mid 1860s up until 1939. There aren't many war
veterans or civil leaders buried here. Yet, because of story the Ray family, it
remains one of my favorite places to take people. In the SW corner are three
headstones that could be easily mistaken as a small family plot. However,
closer inspection reveals a fraction of the hard life that Edgar Ray endured.
Josephine Boling Ray & William Ray
This headstone reads, “Josephine Boling wife of Edgar Ray. Born Feb 14, 1857. Died Mar 11, 1880.”
This headstone reads, “William F. son of
E & J Ray. Born Feb 23, 1880. Died June 30, 1880.”
According
to census records, Josepine was born to William and Hannah M Boling in Salt
Creek Township, Franklin County. She shows up as the oldest child in the 1860
census. In 1870, as a 13 year old, she has five more siblings. Josephine and
Edgar were married on September 12, 1875. It seems she died from complications
of childbirth, and that William died shortly thereafter.
Margaret J Land Ray & Morris Ray
This
headstone is a shared headstone and reads, “Margaret J. wife of Edgar Ray.
1867-1886. Morris Infant. 1886-1886”
Margaret J
Land was born to Moses and Margaret Land in Salt Creek Township, Decatur
County. According to the 1870 census, Moses was around 64 at the time of the
younger Margaret's birth. Edgar and Margaret J. were married in Decatur County
in August of 1884. One can only assume that, again, Edgar's wife died due to
complications of childbirth. Three headstones, four tragic death for Edgar Ray,
and all by the age of 35.
Edgar Ray was
born with what appears to be a twin (Emit) in 1853 to Francis and Nancy Ray. He
was one of 7 sons and a daughter. Death was not uncommon to Edgar Ray. His
father died in 1858 after falling from a church he was building (Kingston
perhaps). On October 14, 1894, Edgar married his third wife, Ida Johnson,
daughter of William and Martha A Johnson of Salt Creek Township, Decatur
County. Because the 1890 census was destroyed in a fire in the 1920s, I am
unable to determine if she may have been married prior to Edgar. There is no
marriage certificate that I can find besides Edgar's. Ida and Edgar finally lived
a long life together. Ida died first in 1931, and Edgar followed in 1948.
However,
tragedy still found Edgar. In 1898, Martha J. Ray is born and dies. Three years
before that, in 1895, William Harrison Ray (pictured) is born. He survives
childhood and enters military service on Aug 6, 1918. He is first listed at Fort
Thomas, KY and then is transferred to Camp Sheridan, AL. It is there that he
dies of pneumonia on Nov 12, 1918. He was laid to rest in Kingston Cemetery
where Edgar, Ida, and Martha are also buried. William H. Ray can be found among
the Decatur County soldiers lost in WWI. Another child born to Edgar and Ida,
Cora E. Ray, shows up on the 1910 and 1920 census but disappears after that,
though that may simply be because she married and had her last name changed.
William
Harrison Ray
Photos from www.findagrave.com
There are
stories similar to this that I have found in the cemeteries throughout Decatur
County, and I hope to touch on a few more in the future. However, The story of
the Ray family always seems to be a bit more tragic to me. Life in the 1800s
and early 1900s was not easy, this is obvious. The story of the Ray family is
probably more the exception and not the rule. But it is still a reminder of how
far modern society has changed.
References:
www.findagrave.com
www.ancestry.com
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